A Blog About a Bloke-Living with WHS

Well another year is nearly over. Both my boys have grown (including Ryley!!) I have returned to work. Our renovations are still not finished. My house is still a mess. There are toys everywhere. I still keep piling the boys new clothes into their drawers without removing the stuff that doesn't fit them. Ryley is still on the Ketogenic Diet, though may come off it next year (gasp!) He started walking this year! He loves school so much that he would rather live there than here! Braeden has all of a sudden become a toddler (when did that happen?). He can tell us what he wants using a combination of words and signs, and he chatters away to anyone who will listen. He is a very kind and sensitive soul, who has reminded us to smile. Who knows what 2010 will bring for us. Plenty of challenges. I am certain of that. In fact, there is no escaping that. That is just the reality of our lives. So I have a few goals.. 1. To try and be more patient. Most people who may look f...

In that order. Ryley decided today was a good day to do his whingy noise AND have heaps of seizures. I truly thought it was going to be the worst day yet. BUT. I have a timetable. It is only a very rough one. But it sure does conquer that noise ! I think what Ryley really misses is his routines. Plus the fact that there is always something for him to do at school, or at the very least, school is noisy and full of action. Home is just so boring and dull compared to that. So I really need to try and create some new routines, as well as throw in some structured (and non-structured) activities. Today, we managed to do some painting, play on the swings, play on the trampoline, watch some TV (PlaySchool and Wiggles) and...the highlight...go for a swim! Ryley was so incredibly happy to be in the swimming pool. He loves his floating ring, and he tries to swim, float, jump, and basically he didn't stop laughing the whole time! And the best bit of him being in the pool...no seizur...

The whinging that is. Ryley is bored. He is sick of the trampoline. He is sick of the swings. He is sick of his climbing frame. He is sick of the Wiggles and PlaySchool. He is sick of his cricket set, puzzles and paint. "Is it time to go back to school yet?" We have 5 weeks to go. It is doing my head in. Braeden refuses to have daysleeps, and spends half the night up feeding as a result (he is overtired and trying to calm himself, but even the BF isn't working). And Ryley spends the day doing THAT NOISE . Seriously. I am going to have to draw up a timetable I think with planned activities. I will have to be specific. I will have to allocate time for certain things... I guess I am just one of 'those' mothers. You know, the ones who dread school holidays. You know, those terrible, horrible, heartless mothers who don't want to spend time with their children.  Yep, that's me. Actually, I am one of those mothers who desperately wishes her nearly...

We had a lovely Christmas Day this year! The boys liked their presents and we had a fun day out at David's parents house. So here is a few snapshots from the day!

I just want to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas! I hope that you all enjoy your day and that Santa comes to visit tonight!! Both Ryley and Braeden are fast asleep after warnings from me that if they don't sleep all night then Santa won't visit. Ryley was listening and I know he will sleep all night now. Braeden....well...he will try I am sure! I usually like to make a few christmas wishes and this year is no different. So here are my wishes: For Ryley: * That Ryley can continue to grow and be healthy * That Ryley can maintain his current amount of seizures (less would be even better). * I wish that we can get Ryley the communication tools he needs to help him get his point across! * I wish that Ryley can continue to enjoy his life and can experience as many wonderful things as possible! For Braeden: * I wish that Braeden can continue to thrive and grow. * I hope that he can continue to enjoy his life. * I hope he stays as healthy as he always has been (nearly ...

How do you hope to spend Christmas? I hope that my kids wake up Christmas Day, filled with excitement and in awe of the presents that Santa has left for them. I hope they start tearing them open and shout out each time they find something new. Of course, it will only be Braeden doing the talking, Ryley will more than likely just enjoy tearing the paper into tiny tiny pieces, every now and then he will squeal when he sees something he likes! We will then have a special breakfast. Just us. Together. Enjoying the new things. I absolutely love our Christmas mornings. The flurry of unwrapping presents, followed by the slow exploration that follows as the kids try out their new things (we help Ryley with his). After our morning together we will head out to David's parents house. We try and alternate between families for Christmas Day now, because it chews up the whole day if we have to travel half way around Victoria. The kids love playing with their cousins. Tomorrow (Christ...

After lots of stressing and me feeling sick because I was so worried, the Ketocal is finally here! I just got a phone call from our pharmacist to let us know that the delivery has made it to them!! I am so relieved I could cry. Now, I can finally start to organise myself for christmas, because, to be honest, I have been so stressed about this damn Ketocal that I lost the christmas spirit a bit.

So the Ketocal delivery to Australia has been held up. I am so shocked by this...no really...can't you tell? Apparently there is some emergency stock somewhere that the dietician and representative from Nutricia are trying to get. Ryley is listed as needing it critically, but you know, that only really means he will get whatever supplies they can find first. The dietician said that if worst came to worst we can do Ketogenic PEG feeds another way. She said it is hard work, but we can definitely do it. Oh joy. I do trust our dietician though. I know that she is doing everything humanely possible to get it sorted for us. Not only is she giving me updates as soon as she knows something, she is also in contact with our local pharmacy (who have also been wonderful) and is breathing very heavily down the neck of the Nutricia representative (who is also desperate to get it sorted). Our Judy is not one you mess with. So, I wait with baited breath for our next update. Another story f...

Let me see. No Ketocal in Australia until possibly tonight. It then has to be cleared at customs and then distributed to Melbourne. Ryley will run out on Wednesday. I *may* get some by Christmas Day. Oh phew. Only 2-3 days with no food then. Well, Ryley can starve, that's ok. Actually, no. It's not really ok. Considering the Ketocal formula is Ryley's only food source, we kind of need it. We have managed to get 2 tins from another Mum here in Ballarat. That will only take us up to Wednesday night. Thank goodness she could spare some. I am fairly sure she can spare some more if we are desperate, but I really hope we don't get any more desperate than we already are to be honest (a million thanks to Fiona!!). It is not really good enough though. Not only do I have that to worry about and follow up with phone calls, I am also still waiting for Ryley's new Mic-Key button and giving sets. Which should have been here..oh..nearly a week ago. More phone calls to m...

It's funny how at this time of the year you start to reflect on the year the was. I start to think about my goals for next year (in all facets of my life) and consider if I have reached any of the things I had hoped to achieve. After re-reading my 'Hello Little Man' piece, I think back to how long ago I wrote that. Over 5 years ago! So much has happened since then, yet I feel like I could have written that yesterday and it would have still rung true for me. Are the issues I face still the same? Yes. Pretty much. But there are many many new issues as well. For example, I still get frustrated that people think using the word 'retard' is ok. It is not. End of story. It is hurtful. I know most people in this world don't get that it is hurtful and come up with all sort's of excuses as to why it is ok for them to use. At the end of the day, it is hurtful still. I don't want people in my life that think it is ok to use that word. I figure if people can't...

I have been meaning to do this for a while now, and I finally have a few minutes to myself while Braeden is watching Iggle Piggle (I hate ITNG, but hey, if it keeps him out of my hair for 5 mins, I will take it!). I want to share with you some of my favourite blogs at the moment. I say 'at the moment' because, some of my fave bloggers aren't posting right now, so they will get a mention another time! These blogs are ones that inspire me, that make me laugh, cry, and want to keep blogging. So here they are, in no particular order: Sharalyn, has two blogs: Here  and this one  She has a son with Autism whom she homeschools. What inspires me about Sharalyn is how she views Autism and the things she teaches J. I love reading her blog because she shares the same ideals as me when it comes to having a person with a disability in your life. Melissa, is only new to this blogging world, but I just love reading about her daughter Ellie   Ellie has WHS like Ryley, and Mel is ...

Because I don't have much time at the moment to write, I will just put a few pictures up. Every year I attempt to take christmas photos, and every year they end up the same..as in..they never really work out too well. See what you think...!! These next two were taken at Braeden's daycare christmas party:

Seems like ages since I have been on here! I am still not that well, but feeling better. This week has been incredibly busy. Ryley's school concert went very well. Ryley enjoyed himself and of course we were bursting with pride. Braeden particularly like the little girls performing their ballet act. He clapped so hard he nearly fell off David's knee. Bit had to get photos because we were too far away from the stage. We got it all on video though! It is absolutely freezing here at the moment. It is meant to be summer and instead the temperature is the same as what it is in winter. Crazy. I will write a longer post when I get a chance. In between working late, school concerts, work breakups and late night shopping, I have no time for anything. Probably why I can't shake this flu virus.

I just want to thank you to all of those who have commented, emailed me or responded on Facebook to my 100th post. It really encourages me to keep writing. It is an honour to have people take the time to come and read about my little family and the things we face. So thankyou to my loyal readers, and hello to any new ones... I will be back to post something when I feel a bit better. I have the flu at the moment and I am not a happy camper. Not to mention the fact that this is the busiest week of the year (well it feels like it anyway). We had two appointments for Ryley today, one with his school to set goals for next year. I will write about it later. I also have some lovely christmas photos to share from our various christmas parties on Saturday. I will be back. As soon as I feel a bit better.

I wanted to do a really special post for my 100th post on this blog. Many of you know that we did have another blog, but it got lost in cyber world (we have been able to retrieve some of it). I wanted to share with everyone some photos that people may never have seen before of our Ryley. I also wrote the piece "Hello Little Man" when he was 2 and 1/2 years old. I still get a little teary when I read it, because the emotions I was expressing were so raw. I think you will see what I mean... So first, some photos: Feeding Ryley some of my expressed colostrum. He is 1 day old. The day we got home from hospital. One of my favourite photos ever. I am smiling, but I had just struggled to feed Ryley my expressed milk. Ryley, aged 4 months old, after his first operation. It was a lensectomy. This breaks my heart everytime I see it. He is so very sad. Happy 1st Birthday Ryley Happy 2nd Birthday to my little man! Learning to walk. 19 months old in both these...

Let us celebrate those who have a disability. Let us acknowledge that they are People First. Let us strive for acceptance and understanding. May we recognise abilities, and not focus on what people can't do. I love someone with Wolf-Hirschhorn Syndrome.

Finally it is time to put the christmas tree and decorations up!! Although we won't be getting our tree until Thursday, at least we can put the decorations up! I can't wait to make some yummy christmas treats, and to put the lights up. We have already been giving the Wiggly Christmas DVD a workout! I love creating the christmas magic for the boys. Ryley loves the song 'Jingle Bells' and both the boys love dancing to 'Go Santa Go'. The first thing they did when they got up this morning was put their santa hats on!!So very cute. Not that we forget about the true meaning of christmas either and do have a nativity scene and we talk often about why we actually celebrate christmas. So stay tuned for some festive photos... And stay tuned for my 100th post. It is going to be a special one.