Here's hoping

Just a very quick update because it is way too cold to be sitting in my study on my computer.
Ryley has made it through today with no vomiting and has managed all of his PEG feeds.
We are desperately hoping he is on the mend now, although we don't want to get our hopes up too high just yet.
He has spent the day resting today, which is what he needed the most.

It was a good day to stay in bed too. It only got to 5 degrees celsius here today in Ballarat. Brrrrr. That is very very cold!!
Thank you for all the prayers and to those who are looking out for us. Without our network of friends, we would be lost. I can't really describe in words what it means to get a little message, or a quick comment or offer of help on here or on Facebook. I will never be able to express my gratitude I don't think.

So...here's hoping our little man is on the up again. Because in just over a weeks time, he gets to have surgery and have most of teeth removed. It is going to be quite traumatising for him, not to mention painful and scary.
But he is one brave and strong little boy. And we will walk the path with him, his Mum, his Dad and his little brother. Together we can provide the strength he needs to get through another painful surgery.

Comments

  1. AnonymousJune 30, 2010 at 11:26 AM

    I'm glad he had some much needed rest, i hope you got some too.

    Is the surgery at The Dental Hospital? I can come and meet you guys, i know a great pizza place on Lygon (around the corner) if your up to it. I totally understand if it's too much to have company, see how you go... i'm just a hop, skip and a jump away!

    Take care, i'm thinking of you guys.
    XXLiv

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  2. AlisonJune 30, 2010 at 11:51 AM

    I'm glad he had a better day. I hope today is better still - and that it warms up a bit!

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  3. AnnaJuly 1, 2010 at 4:36 PM

    Hey Liv,
    The surgery is at the RCH. Me will message you though xx

    Thanks Alison xx

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